On Losing Friends and Grieving People
And the Wonderful Tibetan Practice of Tonglen
Someone I deeply care about—as both a friend and a client—unsubscribed from my Substack last week. I put so much care and effort into writing these essays, so…
It hurt.
It hurt a lot.
It hurt in my lower back.
It hurt between my shoulder blades.
It hurt just like when other kids rejected me on the playground.
Substack lets you remove the notifications of p…
